Flirting Tips

Be genuine when flirting with girls or you'll get caught by their BS detector.

Do you need some flirting tips to get you started? Know, first, that girls and guys flirt in very different ways. When you're flirting with girls, you will need to be genuine and sincere; every woman seems to be born with a BS detector, and if you use it she'll know.

Similarly, girls need to follow some different rules. Your flirting technique should not include any overt or suggestive references to exes, babies, weddings, or anything that seems to intimate that you want to get serious Right Now! Flirting is fun, not a bouquet and an engagement ring.

Flirting Tips for Guys

The art of flirting should be learned by every guy, whether he's involved with a woman already or just browsing the shop. Men who flirt regularly with their significant other have a better love life, and they're also ready for the world if they suddenly find themselves without a partner.

Some flirting tips for guys:

Flirting Tip 1: Don't memorize a book! Flirting is not to be used as a way to keep women from getting to know you. Instead, it's a great way to get a woman's attention. Women love sincerity. They are all about knowing who people are. Walk up and say something real and warm, and you'll have all the attention you want.

Flirting Tip 2: Start with a glance and a wink. Okay, not a literal wink. But let the girl across the room know that you think she's cute by watching her and smiling at her before you approach her.

Flirting Tip 3: Keep it light and funny. People-watch with her, or tease her about anything silly: the frou-frou drink she chose, the way she came on to you (when you're the one who approached her) or with extravagant praise ("My darling, the light from the stars above is reflected on your hair and spills out like wine from your lips." Hokey - intentionally).

Flirting Tip 4: Especially if you do the extravagant praise thing above, choose a flirting style that suits you. If you're a Shakespearian scholar, you can probably get away with the praise. If you're more of a football nut, it might be as simple as paying attention to her and not the game.

Flirting Tips for Girls

Why should guys have all the fun? Here are a few flirting tips for girls too.

Tip 1: Starting with flirting tips for shy girls - shyness can be very sexy to guys. You don't have to talk to him, just learn to look at him. Glance over, but this time wait til he sees you looking before you glance away! Then, be bold and look at him again to see if he's still looking at you. The stare - glance away - glance back technique is the most basic flirting took a woman has.

Tip 2: Learn how to flirt by watching girls who are really good at it. Then take anything from it that works for you. In other words, if you don't get into skin exposure, don't unbutton your blouse down to here; instead, watch the way the flirter moves her arms, looks at a guy, and smiles.

Tip 3: Don't worry if the guy doesn't pick up on your flirting. Guys are dense - all of them, thick as mud. Stick with the glance technique, and don't be afraid of making the first move if he doesn't seem to pick up on it quickly enough for you. Almost every guy is glad if almost any girl walks up to talk to him. They aren't as picky as women.

Tip 4: Reread Tip 3, and pay attention to every single sentence. Women are usually too timid, not too bold. Don't let his denseness make you lose him.

Want more? No worries! You'll find many more flirting tips for both sexes throughout this site.